I love this month, with its full, joyous dive into autumn, and all the spooky trappings of Halloween, and the celebration of Samhain, and how many take the time to remember and honor loved ones and ancestors who have passed.
Where I live, it is warmer most of the year, so the leaves don't really turn all those firey colors like they do in other places. (Which is part of why I was so enchanted by my visit to Seattle a few years ago - it was the very first time I'd ever seen that phenomenon up close and personal!) They mostly just dry up and fall off, leaving the trees bare.
I also love candy, (who doesn't?) and dressing up in strange clothes, and pretending to be someone (or something,) I'm not. It's a night for ultimate fantasy, Halloween, a night when anyone can wear anything, and nobody will even look twice.
I remember one year, I worked at Phobia, a really awesome haunted house. (The BEST haunted house, in my opinion, but anyway...) I was the relief person, going through the house, one room at a time, taking people's spots as they took their breaks. I think I liked doing that better than I would have liked being in one place the whole time. I never got bored, and I got to play every part, and use every prop.
Afterward, Bunny and I (and often, a couple friends of ours,) would go out for dinner, and sometimes I got away with wearing my makeup to the restaurant, which was fun, because I'd get the funniest looks from people when I did. (It didn't happen often, though - most of the time, Bunny would refused to take me anywhere until I'd taken off the makeup, because hates fun isn't fond of anything that draws attention anywhere near his direction.
He was almost always forced to put up with me wearing it on the way there, though, because he was my ride, and he got off work fairly late in the day. This meant that I was usually getting there right when the place opened, so I had to be ready before I got there. And that usually meant putting my makeup on as we were headed there. (Luckily, I'm quite good at putting makeup on in a moving vehicle.)
I amused myself by confounding other drivers on the road, who were usually either alarmed or confused by my scary makeup. I remember one guy in a pickup truck kept peeeering my way, unsure what to make of me. I stuck out my tongue and waggled it, and he cracked up laughing. I was in a great mood all night after that.
And there were the years when the bratlings were little... those were fun years.
My oldest was just a month old the first time she went trick or treating. I bundled her up in some warm dark clothes and tights with pumpkins on them, and put her in her stroller, and a friend and I took her out, and went up and down the street, trick or treating. I told the people who answered the doors that it was "for the baby." A few of them laughed, thinking she was a doll, and the stroller a prop, that we were dressed up as a happy family, or something. We cracked up when they peered down into the stroller and were shocked by the sight of an actual baby staring back at them. Luckily, she was more curious than scared, so she didn't really cry at all.
My middle one was dressed in a lion suit his grandmother bought him for his first Halloween. Unfortunately, it was rather warm that year, and the costume was fleece, so it didn't stay on long.
For my youngest's first Halloween, we dressed him up as a baby vampire. The costume had footed pajamas with a tuxedo print on the front, and a itty-bitty black cape. It was adorable.
That was also the year that I dressed up in what most of my friends seem to think was my best costume ever. (Ironically enough, it was also the laziest and cheapest costume ever.) It basically consisted of two items: a headband with springy antennae that my oldest had brought home from some silly thing she'd attended a few months prior, (she'd set it down on the bookcase, and promptly forgotten it existed,) and one of those peel and stick name badges that say, "Hello, my name is" on them. I wrote, "Gone crazy, back in five minutes" on it, and stuck it to my shirt. I never have quite understood how amongst all the creative costumes I've made for myself over the years, the one I scrambled together in five minutes flat ended up being the favorite, but I suppose I can't complain.
Actually, I'm thinking of making a similar costume this year, though I'll have to find a new headband - the original one has long since disappeared.
I think that's enough October reminiscing, don't you?
So, I think I'll finish this up with one of my favorite quotes from the original 21 Jump Street series, where Johnny Depp's Character, Officer Tom Hansen, was talking to a (then unknown) Jason Priestly, who was playing a guy named Tober.
Officer Hanson: "Your name is Tober? Why would your parents name you that?"
Jason Priestly's character: "My 'rents didn't name me Tober. I chose that name."
Officer Hanson: "Why would you name yourself Tober?"
Tober: "Because it's my favorite month."
Officer Hanson: *looks confused*
Tober: "October, man! It's when everything DIES."